Hi, I live with my mother with Alzheimer’s in her home. I get no help with my mother at moment and have not had one full day to myself in 2 years.
I love my mother but she was a difficult woman before the Alzheimer’s but even worse now. My family can only give me very limited help because the work full time.
She will not have care givers in or go to any community center and refused to go to my brothers wedding.
My family think she needs to go into care, as I have to leave her in the house sometimes as she won’t go out with me. I try not to be long but I had a hospital appointment that was 5 hour and found her trying to walk the dog that she can not handle.
I want to look after her but it’s becoming impossible and I’m scared that if she does I’ll be kicked out, homeless with my pets.
Have no savings because the past two years we have had so many emergency’s that took my savings. So I would not be able to get myself a place.
I know that sounds selfish but I’m really scared. Looking after mother has also made me very isolated and have lost the people I talked to through deaths.
Any advice is appreciated
I love my mother but she was a difficult woman before the Alzheimer’s but even worse now. My family can only give me very limited help because the work full time.
She will not have care givers in or go to any community center and refused to go to my brothers wedding.
My family think she needs to go into care, as I have to leave her in the house sometimes as she won’t go out with me. I try not to be long but I had a hospital appointment that was 5 hour and found her trying to walk the dog that she can not handle.
I want to look after her but it’s becoming impossible and I’m scared that if she does I’ll be kicked out, homeless with my pets.
Have no savings because the past two years we have had so many emergency’s that took my savings. So I would not be able to get myself a place.
I know that sounds selfish but I’m really scared. Looking after mother has also made me very isolated and have lost the people I talked to through deaths.
Any advice is appreciated