Hello everyone, I'm new to this and need some advice, having just got my mum in a care home, I feel like I have abandoned her and feel so guilty all the time, in think about her al the time and worried than she is ok, but also feel relieved that all the phone calls have stopped, and I can start to get on with my life, as this has taken over my life for 3 years, is this normal, I feel so overwhelmed with the complexity of it all, never mind the financial implications, having dealt with the social services and their finance people, I have found it so stressful, and it's not over yet, I was in the midst of selling her house, only now to be told I have to get a capacity assessment done first, otherwise I will have to get a cop order done, which will take months, I had a buyer for mum's house the contract was signed, and they have just hit me with this bombshell, don't know how much more I can take, it's just so overwhelming. Any advice would be greatly received.
Thanks
Melissa
Thanks
Melissa