I moved my mum and dad to a care home near me ,100 miles from where they lived , both suffered from dementia, my dad worse than my mum .They both settled well and I could see them more often with less stress.
My mum has passed away peacefully and my dad just doesn’t seem to be aware that she has gone .
I am arranging her funeral as a small family one and I know this seems an awful thing to ask , but should I take my dad ? I just don’t know what to do . One minute I think I should take him as they were married for 67 years , but then he just seems to be so totally unaware that I don’t want to cause him any upset if it suddenly dawns on him what’s happened ?
My mum has passed away peacefully and my dad just doesn’t seem to be aware that she has gone .
I am arranging her funeral as a small family one and I know this seems an awful thing to ask , but should I take my dad ? I just don’t know what to do . One minute I think I should take him as they were married for 67 years , but then he just seems to be so totally unaware that I don’t want to cause him any upset if it suddenly dawns on him what’s happened ?