Hello, looking for some guidance please.
My mother has had dementia for a couple of years now and my father has been the main care giver. My mother is 80 and my father is 78.
Last Saturday my father was taken to hospital with shortness of breath and was admitted with what we now know was a mild heart attack and he is remaining in hospital for an operation.
As a result of this hospital admission, it fell to my brother and I to look after my mother. We arranged for carers to come in twice a day, morning and evening to help her get washed and dressed. Unfortunately the carers make my mother very agitated and upset and she starts shouting at them and asking them to leave. The last two mornings, with a single carer on her own, my mother has refused all offers by the carer to get washed and dressed. Is there anything anyone can suggest to help the carers offer the personal care she needs without getting my mother worked up or angry.
I'm worried that if my mother continues to refuse help from the carers then they won't be there when my father comes out of hospital and really needs them.
Any advice welcome. Thank you in advance.
My mother has had dementia for a couple of years now and my father has been the main care giver. My mother is 80 and my father is 78.
Last Saturday my father was taken to hospital with shortness of breath and was admitted with what we now know was a mild heart attack and he is remaining in hospital for an operation.
As a result of this hospital admission, it fell to my brother and I to look after my mother. We arranged for carers to come in twice a day, morning and evening to help her get washed and dressed. Unfortunately the carers make my mother very agitated and upset and she starts shouting at them and asking them to leave. The last two mornings, with a single carer on her own, my mother has refused all offers by the carer to get washed and dressed. Is there anything anyone can suggest to help the carers offer the personal care she needs without getting my mother worked up or angry.
I'm worried that if my mother continues to refuse help from the carers then they won't be there when my father comes out of hospital and really needs them.
Any advice welcome. Thank you in advance.