My dad is 89 and things became more apparent that his memory was really declining, in June when he stopped taking his usual meds for 5 weeks.
He was in hospital, then at a reablement hub for 5 weeks, and now back home on his own - but he has carers going in 4 times a day to give him his meds, meals, wash etc.
He scored 62 out of 100 in yesterday's ACE test and will now have a head scan to verify exactly what's the cause of his decline.
It's hard for me as there are no other relatives to support dad or me, and I live 90 miles away in South Tyneside. I work, but am free to go down to Leeds one day each week at weekends to check shopping, his post, talk with him, any little jobs to sort.
We've sent the LPoA forms off but will likely be a good 2 months for confirmation etc.
I am now off work with stress just because of all the new responsibilities for dad, phone calls, organising/chasing things ie: appointments, payments and wotnot. Plus I lost my patience with him today after being on the phone for 2 hrs regarding a bill and feeling overwhelmed with things and dad repeating himself... I feel bad about this.
I'm new to this and I suppose I'm wanting to say hello and feel others can understand and relate... offer some guidance generally? Thanks
He was in hospital, then at a reablement hub for 5 weeks, and now back home on his own - but he has carers going in 4 times a day to give him his meds, meals, wash etc.
He scored 62 out of 100 in yesterday's ACE test and will now have a head scan to verify exactly what's the cause of his decline.
It's hard for me as there are no other relatives to support dad or me, and I live 90 miles away in South Tyneside. I work, but am free to go down to Leeds one day each week at weekends to check shopping, his post, talk with him, any little jobs to sort.
We've sent the LPoA forms off but will likely be a good 2 months for confirmation etc.
I am now off work with stress just because of all the new responsibilities for dad, phone calls, organising/chasing things ie: appointments, payments and wotnot. Plus I lost my patience with him today after being on the phone for 2 hrs regarding a bill and feeling overwhelmed with things and dad repeating himself... I feel bad about this.
I'm new to this and I suppose I'm wanting to say hello and feel others can understand and relate... offer some guidance generally? Thanks