Hi Yes i remember talking to you a while ago. Good advice about saying you'll leave. I did that last time and she did stop a bit. Although she said "why are you leaving, I only said I'll never forgive you" Only! It sounds as though your mum had a difficult personality before dementia like mine. It really does complicate things as my dad is still pretty chilled out even though he can get agitated and confused. I didn't realise paranoia went with dementia too. How often do you visit your mum? Do you temd to stay long? As soon as I walk through the door I feel I want to leave!