1. Jess1982

    Jess1982 Registered User

    Nov 9, 2014
    75
    Hi
    Yes i remember talking to you a while ago.

    Good advice about saying you'll leave.
    I did that last time and she did stop a bit. Although she said "why are you leaving, I only said I'll never forgive you"
    Only!

    It sounds as though your mum had a difficult personality before dementia like mine. It really does complicate things as my dad is still pretty chilled out even though he can get agitated and confused.

    I didn't realise paranoia went with dementia too.

    How often do you visit your mum?
    Do you temd to stay long?

    As soon as I walk through the door I feel I want to leave!
     
  2. Jess1982

    Jess1982 Registered User

    Nov 9, 2014
    75
    Care home staff guilt!

    Hi hope all you guys are OK.

    Have any of you had experience of care home staff making you feel guilty?!

    1 lady keeps saying things like "she missed you, she's lonely. You should come more often"!

    She knows nothing about my life or my mum and I's relationship.
    Can't be bothered to start explaining myself to her as I shouldn't have to.

    Just find it very annoying!

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