At last I have plucked up the courage to enter the TP site. I usually just look in the vain hope I might see the answer to my problems. I can't give too much detail as I am afraid of being identified. My current problem is - the decision to move mum into a care home has been taken, but she will be 100% opposed to it. She still believes she can "do" for herself. The reality is she does nothing. She can still hold a coversation, but it is the same coversation as the one 20 seconds ago. She gets confused and agitated over every thing, and only seems to function while I am on hand. I have siblings who plead numerous excuses for not helpling. Mum is now classed as "severe". She gets lost (the police have been great) but can't understand what the fuss is about. And it's all my fault! She will fight the move to the end, I am sure. But I can cope no more and my own family life has suffered too much. So I need ideas, please. The big day will be coming up soon and I am so unprepared, and feel totally out of my depth. How will I get her there, and keep her there?