Hi Sony
Yes Mum and Dad are in the same home, in a double room.
I was told the availability of a double room was slim, that was when they were in Glasgow but, since bringing them here to my area, it isn't a problem.
The only problem I can see about them being separated is if one of them became very much worse than the other and needed a dementia unit and the other didn't.
In the NH with attached dementia unit, I looked at yesterday, (in the same complex as the respite home) they only had single rooms, understandable, but I am hoping that we never get to that stage, but if we do, I hope both of them by that stage will not be aware. Maybe I am hoping for too much!
We can only do the best we can with the circimstances at the time, I have often tried to second guess what will happen in the future, but have found it a futile exercise.
Take everyday as it comes
Alfjess