I am sure I will get used to my new life, given time.
Jan x
I am getting used to my life Jan , after two years, but it is far from perfect and definitely not what I`d choose.
I think we have to be realistic and weigh up the pros and cons.
Opting for residential care is the most difficult decision anyone has to make, but it is necessary if we want to safeguard our own health and the health of the person we care for. However painful, we need to face the fact a lone carer, even with help, cannot provide the level of care a good home, with a team of carers, can.
I remember taking my mother to her residential home. I said I hoped she`d be happy there. With a flash of insight she replied, `I`m not looking for happiness but I know I have to go.`