I had a melt down on Monday I'd been away for the weekend for a much needed brake,my sister came to stay with mum she lives 3 hours drive away so cant help day to day. The day I got back mum said she was canceling the carers that come in am and pm she has allready cancelled the lunch time one.My mum takes quite a few tablets per day and she was getting confused whether she had had them sometimes I fown odd ones scattered around. I burst into tears and sobbed and sobbed my sister was still here she comforted me,my mum seemes to be unable to. I feel better for it,it also showed my sister I wasnt joking when I said I wasnt coping well she had never seen me cry like that. My sister looked after my mum for 5 years untill it made her ill. my mum has been with me 3 years Both me and my sister are on anti depp.My mum as know comprimised and kept the am call.the first night the carer did'nt come to give her her tea she called me at 10 o'clock saying she was hungry because nobody had been to give her her tea. I'm also worried I m getting it seeing as it travels down the female line,my memory is shot to hell.