Oh, Sylvia. I expect you almost wish you hadn't learned that particular piece of information, that Dhiren queries whose is the bed ... And that he resists being got ready for bed at night.
You have hit a rough patch here, haven't you. I am so sorry. I am not sure that you go in for virtual hugs and stuff, but perhaps you might accept a virtual warm blanket to keep you snug for as long as it's necessary.
I hope you manage to get a decent night's sleep tonight. I see you were up in the wee small hours this morning. A warm bath and a hot drink, perhaps?
Thinking of you and sending love,
Nan XXX