Sorry about this everyone, but i have to let of some steam. I was waiting for my dads social worker to get some help for mom with my dad who as AD, We waited for eight months, untill i rang her to find that the help we wanted must have got lost in the system. So we was back to square 1. dads new social worker came to see mom and said that she would send someone round to help with the personal care with dad. ok great because moms now having a job to dress him herself and by now her own health is suffering trying to look after him and look after herself has well. Anyway she makes another appointment with mom and we will see her in a weeks time. since then shes been of sick, and i've been phoning them asking very politley please can you help me, cause i'm now watching my mom going into a depression and i'm worried i will then have two parents to look after. so i get through to the duty officer last friday, she tells me she will change dad to a new social worker and we would hear from her during this week. Well no we didn't so i rang again today. Acording to the nice lady on the desk he hasn't been changed to a new social worker, she said she would leave a note to the duty officer for her to ring me......Well i'm sick to death of all this.....My husband is runing around looking after his own mom, my mom our house decorating doing fences in gardens. All i seem to do is think who am i going to help today. Don't get me wrong i don't mind helping mom and dad and i've been there for them every step of the way, and i intend to be there for as long as they need me. But i feel now that i've hit that brick wall and i'm talking to myself because nobody gives a dam.....Sorry this as been such a long post but i need to have a rant because i'm so wound up about everthing by now. Janet