Hello musicgirl..welcome to TP and thankyou for your support...
You've certainly got your hands full even though you don't live with your mum the responsibility of care is there.
My daughter picked me up thismorning..she drove..I navigated and we found the CH quite easily.
It was a pleasant surprise..and looks nothing like a CH from the outside..more like a "Small and Friendly" Hotel..
The rooms are all ground floor and placed around a courtyard garden...and all rooms are en suite. (The building is converted stables)
We were greeted by a senior carer..she'd been fully briefed about Eric by her manager and said she was looking forward to meeting him.
There was no smell...apart from dinner cooking...
The cleaner was busy with her "Henry" but took time to say "Hello".
There is a smoking room...
and it's lovely.
A small lounge with comfy chairs and a TV..but Eric will only be able to go there under supervision which is fair enough.
We met residents and their visitors and quite honestly I was reduced to tears again...
I've met people today who understood..as you all do..the concerns about "letting go" and have been reassured.
In that small space of time there was understanding and hugs from visitors and staff who just seemed to know...even the cook came out to welcome us.
My only concern is that Eric seems to have a bit more about him than the other residents...who looked older than him.
I know he's demanding..and I explained how he is. They feel they can deal with him but the manager still has to assess him on Tuesday.
It's not as local as I would have liked..but is way above anything I've seen locally...
Forgot to mention..the District Nurse visited while I was there and she also gave it the thumbs up....
It sounds hopeful!
Love xx
I think this CH would be ideal for Eric.