Have just been reading your comments on sleeping problems - it sounds all too familiar with my mother and father. My father goes to be at about 9pm but is up and out of bed 4 to 5 times a night trying to shower and get changed which inevitably awakes my mother, and he never sleeps beyong 5/6am - she is now absolutely exhausted and does not know how to ensure that they both get more sleep. My fathers Alzheimers has not progressed that far to warrant him going into a home and it has been a long struggle trying to get an assessment and then finally getting respite for my mother. We would love to give my father a normal life and allow him to live at home with his wife as normal for as long as possible but I worry that this is affecting my mother too much - any advice would be greatly appreciated!!