I went to my mum's care home because they wanted to update the care plan a few months ago. The person I spoke to chose to ask me if I was planning 'cremation or burial' when my mum was sitting right beside me. I was so taken aback and shocked that I answered her. It was only a few minutes later that I said I didn't feel comfortable about answering these questions whilst sitting next to my mum. My mum died this past Sunday and the people from the home I've spoken to in the last couple of weeks have been great, but I won't forget (unless I get Alzheimers [sorry]) that incident, and when I last saw my mum on the Friday the same person spoke to me again, asking me if it was going to be a cremation when my mum died. Why? What's it got to do with you?
It's been a long time since I was able to communicate with my mum, or understand her, but how do I know whether she was able to understand just what was being said on that visit?