No offence intended,just an observation.I have dealt with the estates of both my parents and my FIL .It is doable but there are some things which take a bit of time.I'm not sure you can apply for probate until the house is sold as that will be a large part of the estate.The executor should place a notice in The London Gazette,that has to be in place for a month.If he's not prepared to step aside I'm not sure you have too many options.Similarly if he feels he needs to consult a solicitor to assist him.Try to put it to the back of your mind for now and concentrate on tomorrow.Best wishes.
Thank you. I have been advised that the house sale & probate can run concurrently so that is ok. The estate is well under inheritance tax purposes so no worries there. I will speak with the executor tomorrow & on Wednesday then we will hopefully do some work as regards the estate & with my help save a lot of money.