Further to my recent thread/s about when to consider care homes etc and having taken notice of helpful advice from others have been viewing local CH online! Just really for information.
As a quirk of fate the CH which I thought looked a possible in the future is advertising a ‘Come and See, Afternoon Tea ‘ next week!
Great, I thought , I shall go along and see in a relaxed and hopefully informal way!
Do I even mention it to OH!
He has reacted and stated when distressed or angry, that the GP and I are colluding to’put him in a home’ so the idea of a rational conversation regarding this is non existent!
However, the idea of not trying to explain or even mentioning seems so foreign to me.
I am think I should tell our sons, who I am certain, like myself do realise that the probable next move for OH will be a CH.
I have seen mention of ‘love lies’(?)would this be one of those or just deceitful. ?
I suppose in my heart I know what I should do but!!!!!!!!!!
As a quirk of fate the CH which I thought looked a possible in the future is advertising a ‘Come and See, Afternoon Tea ‘ next week!
Great, I thought , I shall go along and see in a relaxed and hopefully informal way!
Do I even mention it to OH!
He has reacted and stated when distressed or angry, that the GP and I are colluding to’put him in a home’ so the idea of a rational conversation regarding this is non existent!
However, the idea of not trying to explain or even mentioning seems so foreign to me.
I am think I should tell our sons, who I am certain, like myself do realise that the probable next move for OH will be a CH.
I have seen mention of ‘love lies’(?)would this be one of those or just deceitful. ?
I suppose in my heart I know what I should do but!!!!!!!!!!