Dear all, I joined as a member of talking point a while ago, but this is my first time on the forum, so please bear with me!
My father is 73 has vascular dementia, and is in residential care. The staff at the home are extremely patient and helpful but he has become steadily more aggressive towards them, particularly when they are trying to give him medication. He is refusing to take his medication to the extent that I think it has become an issue. They haven't really said as much - but we are having a review next week and it obviously needs discussion. It is not only the taking of the medication that is a problem, but he has a patch (for angina) and refuses to let them lift his clothes to change it. Bathing and shaving is another problem area. He is very mobile and capable of washing and shaving himself, but needs prompting. When they ask him to wash he often refuses to do it and refuses their help.
If any members have had similar experiences I would be interested in hearing how they were dealt with, both by the family and the care staff.
Thanks for your time.
Lin
My father is 73 has vascular dementia, and is in residential care. The staff at the home are extremely patient and helpful but he has become steadily more aggressive towards them, particularly when they are trying to give him medication. He is refusing to take his medication to the extent that I think it has become an issue. They haven't really said as much - but we are having a review next week and it obviously needs discussion. It is not only the taking of the medication that is a problem, but he has a patch (for angina) and refuses to let them lift his clothes to change it. Bathing and shaving is another problem area. He is very mobile and capable of washing and shaving himself, but needs prompting. When they ask him to wash he often refuses to do it and refuses their help.
If any members have had similar experiences I would be interested in hearing how they were dealt with, both by the family and the care staff.
Thanks for your time.
Lin