Can I ... Should I?

[Izzy]

Aw Sam - all I can do is wish you strength at this most difficult of times.

 

[Slugsta]

Morning all,

Sam, trust your instincts (((hugs)))

 

[Sam Luvit]

Aw Sam - all I can do is wish you strength at this most difficult of times.

Thank you @Izzy its a very strange almost surreal time to be sure

 

[Margi29]

You know what is best for your mum, sending heart felt wishes to you both x
Dogs are amazing, they seem to have a built in radar and know when things are not good

 

[Sam Luvit]

Morning @Slugsta

I’m following them. It’s jyst when I sit back & think that I question if I’m wrong (legally as well as morally). Although morally I think I’m doing the most humane thing for Mum.

 

[Izzy]

Thank you @Izzy its a very strange almost surreal time to be sure

Absolutely. Surreal sums it up for me - both with mum and with Bill. I think it feels like being on auto pilot.

 

[canary]

Im sure you are doing the right thing Sam
Yes, its surreal - I called it living in limboland
(((((hugs))))))

 

[Sam Luvit]

Thank you @Margi29

Mum tells me she had lots of visitors in the night. She couldn’t move & so many people kept coming in to see her. She wants to know what I did to her. It was obviously a very vivid dream, as she’s still asking about it & telling brother several hours after she’s gotten up

Pooch is staying with Mum, not even going out when the doorbell chimes to tell of movement outside. Animals have that extra sense that something is wrong.

 

[Sam Luvit]

Autopilot for sure @Izzy I’m washing & cleaning & making beds, but no rush, I’m almost too calm.

 

[jugglingmum]

Just sending a hug xxxx

Re pets - After I lost my son, my little cat slept on my pillow for a while, and when dau had pneumonia, the current little cat slept on her bed for a while. Of course this meant when my little cat died I was doubly devastated as it reminded me of her sleeping on my pillow

 

[Amy in the US]

Sam, I'm sure you are doing the right thing and that you aren't doing anything wrong. Here are (((hugs))) for you today.

 

[Margi29]

Conversations with neighbors about garden

Neighbors: your garden always looks lovely, I'm sick of buying and spending loads of money on plants then they die.

Me : stop watering in full sun, water at night

Neighbors: I've not got time, I've got a baby

Me : they will burn and die in this heat

Neighbors: I'd rather they burn, I'm too stressed

It took all my will power not to scream, ' live my life for a day ' then you will know stress

So for all you reading these posts you just are lucky you've not got stupid next door

 

[Earthgirl72]

In my humble opinion - if I were in your place - I would be doing the exact same thing.
Just dropping in with a hug.
xx

 

[2jays]

Hugs xxx

 

[Sam Luvit]

Im sure you are doing the right thing Sam
Yes, its surreal - I called it living in limboland
(((((hugs))))))

That’s another word for it

 

[Sam Luvit]

Thank you for the hugs @jugglingmum im going to be squished soon lol. But it’s a good squishing

Animals are so tuned into these things, much better at comforting than us mere humans. Hugs back to you for your son & little cat

 

[Sam Luvit]

Hi @Amy in the US thanks for the hugs Always appreciated. I’ll just keep doing what I think is right for Mum

 

[Sam Luvit]

Thank you, @Earthgirl72 , it helps to know others wouId do the same Hugs appreciated

 

[Sam Luvit]

Hugs xxx

Ta love Much needed

Are you feeling any better

 

[Sam Luvit]

Oh @Margi29 don’t irritating neighbours drive you nuts. Everything in their lives is always “so stressed” ... walk in our shoes & find out what real stress is Too much for me this week