Hi MaNaAk
Fingers crossed for you and your Dad tomorrow.
Mum is in a home now - almost three weeks and continues to confound. I went to visit today and found her sitting fully dressed, chatting in the day room. The swelling on her legs was down and she seemed a bit more alert. The staff said she wanted to get up this morning so they put her in a chair and then decided to take her to where she had company. I had a new throw for her room and she decided she would take me there but we managed to keep her in place. Where do they get the resilience.
Every good wish for tomorrow. Let us know how it goes and if he’s confused get him into bed ASAP. That’s what I did with mum after day care and she was fine the next day.
Denise
Dear Denise,
I'm pleased that you mum is recovering from her fall and the home sounds very good with very patient staff. It will take her sometime to get over her fracture but a bit longer for her sodium and blood pressure to get back to normal.
I arrived to collect dad at 2.30 pm and he was so settled in the home that he almost started to change his mind. Anyway I packed his belongings and then I remembered another bag which the staff brought to me and we were on our way. Yes! dad was a bit confused because when I got him home he couldn't believe he was in his house and he seemed to think he owned the big one near the seaside (care home). However he forgot mum was dead so I let him sit down for a bit before he had dinner and then bed. Apart from a knock on my door at the crack of dawn he slept very well although he says he is still tired today.
Anyway this week I will be starting him at a day centre again and the carers will be coming in. However I am starting to realise that I need back-up if everything doesn't go to plan so if the day centre doesn't work the home have said that they will take him during the day at £65 per day. I am now going to add the cost of the daycentre and the carers and compare that with what the home are offering. The price of the home might come to more than the day centre and carers but if it is more beneficial to dad I think it is worth it.
One more thing though and that is whatever happened to dad's hearing aid batteries and their log book? They are no where to be found! The home says there is no sign of them in his room but there's no sign of them in his luggage! I was due to change his hearing aid batteries today but now I have to wait until Monday when the audiology department at the hospital is open and I can order a new log book before hopefully collecting any new batteries from our local clinic! When his batteries run out I will be driven mad with repeats and talking in a loud voice!
MaNaAk