It could be quite amusing and endearing in a way. C has decided she is too much for me and I need to get out and find a "pretty little girl" so I can enjoy life. I suppose she is feeling guilty about "being a burden". Of course, tomorrow she will get needy again and will miss me when go out to do the shopping, but that swing is becoming a pattern.
Now she has refused care from a new carer as she thinks the woman should not have to work so hard. The carer was very good, tried her best and called the office. We got the carers in as C would not let me do any of the personal stuff, now I end up doing it anyway. I can't just leave her on the chair, too many heavy fire doors and the possibility of accidents in the night. What a life we lead.
I had a massage to relax, that didn't last.
Now she has refused care from a new carer as she thinks the woman should not have to work so hard. The carer was very good, tried her best and called the office. We got the carers in as C would not let me do any of the personal stuff, now I end up doing it anyway. I can't just leave her on the chair, too many heavy fire doors and the possibility of accidents in the night. What a life we lead.
I had a massage to relax, that didn't last.