Thank you , thank you, thank you....
It was such a diificult day.
I was met this afternoon by a grumpy, argumentative, tearful and very confused Dhiren.
he had been abandoned to rot
I didn`t love him any more
I didn`t trust him
I thought he would hurt me
why would he kill me, he hadn`t killed anyone on the ward
Paul was `in it` with me
he was starving
he had no clothes, only those he was wearing
all he wanted was a hot meal and a hot bath
he had no money but it was all right as the train is free
he went to get the train but thought I would worry
he wanted to go for a walk but was frightened of getting lost
he never got lost in Manchester
he asked me to buy him a little hut to live in
he wanted a divorce
this place was like a concentration camp
he is not mad
We cried together and it took 2 hours for him to be calm.
The doctor came. He would see Paul. Paul came to the ward.
The diabetic nurse came.
There is nothing wrong with his diet at home. The medication allows for treats.
His pancreas has stopped functioning .
His metabolism is confused.
The confusion caused by AD clashes with the confusion caused by diabetes.
The medication would be increased and dosed 3 times daily instead of twice.
There is no crisis, the averages of his reading are good.
He has been diabetic for 18 years. The average diabetic goes on to Insulin after 10 years, so we have done well.
Insulin has not been ruled out.
There is nothing to worry about.
Paul talked to the doctor.
Trazodone has been stopped.
A very low dose of Amisulpiride has been started.
Dhiren is being left alone now to allow medics to observe how he manages alone.
I have been asked to take him out tomorrow for a couple of hours to see how he behaves with me.
Paul will come to support me.
If he cannot be persuaded to return help will be available.
Dhiren has agreed but I know he doesn`t know what he has agreed to.
We will go along with it. We will not knock it until we have tried it.
We will wait and see.