I read a post yesterday from a lady who commented on the two lives that she has had -the one before Dementia came into it and the one that she has now and I understand exactly what she means.
Life before Dementia was the Olympics 2012 and the Queens Jubilee - that was when life was as normal as it could be - when my brain wasn't frazzled by constant thoughts of the illness and all the pressure that being responsible for my parents and their well being brings - just 12 months after such an iconic year and my Mum was taken ill and subsequently diagnosed with Dementia and just 18 months later my Father was diagnosed as well and now my life cannot escape what Dementia has brought to it.
Reading the many forums posted every day, I don't have anything to complain about although working full time and putting all my thoughts into a job when there are more important things in life is difficult but the bills have to be paid.
Mum does not deserve what has happened to her and visiting her twice a week at the care home is not how I saw things and whilst I would not see any harm come to my Father he has always been a difficult man so my sympathies (and others within the family) for him are few and far between and the day he can go into care will not come soon enough.
A life without Dementia for me would be pure bliss but I also know that a life without Dementia means they will no longer be here!
Life before Dementia was the Olympics 2012 and the Queens Jubilee - that was when life was as normal as it could be - when my brain wasn't frazzled by constant thoughts of the illness and all the pressure that being responsible for my parents and their well being brings - just 12 months after such an iconic year and my Mum was taken ill and subsequently diagnosed with Dementia and just 18 months later my Father was diagnosed as well and now my life cannot escape what Dementia has brought to it.
Reading the many forums posted every day, I don't have anything to complain about although working full time and putting all my thoughts into a job when there are more important things in life is difficult but the bills have to be paid.
Mum does not deserve what has happened to her and visiting her twice a week at the care home is not how I saw things and whilst I would not see any harm come to my Father he has always been a difficult man so my sympathies (and others within the family) for him are few and far between and the day he can go into care will not come soon enough.
A life without Dementia for me would be pure bliss but I also know that a life without Dementia means they will no longer be here!