I don't know how to use this post thing right, I sent a message before but I don't know if I posted it right, this disease is soul destroying, and the suffering they go through for years is horrible and heartbreaking, mum mum has been like this for years, slowly loosing herb it by bit, I always took her to mine, the she forgot how to get into a car, how to walk,how to talk, then forgetting us, my mum was mysoul mate,my best friend, the doctor said it will be over soon, but it is as if I'm starving her to death, he said no drip for her, you just want them back, carer has been trying to give her stuff, not swallowing properly, so have I ,I would feel so guilty watching her with nothing while I'm eating, I've lost a lot of weight through been emotionally ill thru this and my daughters behaviour not visiting her for a year, any sad music or any place we went, seeing old women with their daughters cuts me up terrible, how can you get over a loss like this, cope, can any one help, I'm an only child and this means no one to share this with,my youngest daughter says she is suffering. And it's better for her, I'm being selfish wanting her but it's destroying as well.....never thought ide ever be so bad about it