I've finally after months of waiting got direct payments through for mum and have started to introduce care. Mum is so resistant to them coming in because they are not me.
Has anyone any thoughts as to how to perswade mum that it's a good idea. We've managed to get a pretty good amount of hours but I'm really worried that I'm going to have to give some of those hours back as mum is being so resistant.
I'm a terrible person who doesn't do anything for her and is never there for her - inspite of currently popping in several times a day to sort out her tv, do her washing, her shopping cook her dinners, she comes over to our house each day for dinner.
I'm so close to breaking point with working and looking after my 5 children and mum I just need her to accept some help so that I can have some time off
Has anyone any thoughts as to how to perswade mum that it's a good idea. We've managed to get a pretty good amount of hours but I'm really worried that I'm going to have to give some of those hours back as mum is being so resistant.
I'm a terrible person who doesn't do anything for her and is never there for her - inspite of currently popping in several times a day to sort out her tv, do her washing, her shopping cook her dinners, she comes over to our house each day for dinner.
I'm so close to breaking point with working and looking after my 5 children and mum I just need her to accept some help so that I can have some time off