If you liked it better on the other side, then push hard to get her back there. Loving thoughts. X Shelagh
Thank you
My mum used to refer to her room as 'my house' in her CH. Is it possible that your mum means her room when she wants to go home? Also, it sounds as if your mum is quite mobile, so why does she have to wait for someone to take her back to the lounge from her room??
Yes Mum is mobile but you have to put a code in to get in & out of the wing, even if they could give Mum the code, she wouldn't remember it
I don't know if it would help, but I would try talking to the manager about your mum's best interests. Surely they can't insist on a 'one size fits all' policy? They should be catering for individual needs shouldn't they?
Unfortunately it does seem 'one size fits all' policy. They can only move Mum to the other lounge if they have a spare bedroom for that wing upstairs, no rooms are available. When I move back to the UK next month & Mum hasn't been able to get a room at the other home, I will talk again to the manager. Think it could be better face to face.
Lima