Hi all,
My mum, who has dementia, and who had live-in care until recently, is not sleeping through the night, despite her doctor prescribing sedatives, as a last resort.
The doctor doesn't understand why the sedatives aren't working, as he has prescribed the highest dose he dare.
Most care agencies will allow two wake-ups a night, some offer three but, more often than not, Mum is waking many more times than that.
We have stopped all care for the time being, because the carers can't cope (understandably), and we are trying to figure out what to do next.
Honestly, we are at our wits' end. Mum is like death warmed up after a night of hardly any sleep, and so are we.
None of us can go on like this, but we just don't know what to do.
Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
My mum, who has dementia, and who had live-in care until recently, is not sleeping through the night, despite her doctor prescribing sedatives, as a last resort.
The doctor doesn't understand why the sedatives aren't working, as he has prescribed the highest dose he dare.
Most care agencies will allow two wake-ups a night, some offer three but, more often than not, Mum is waking many more times than that.
We have stopped all care for the time being, because the carers can't cope (understandably), and we are trying to figure out what to do next.
Honestly, we are at our wits' end. Mum is like death warmed up after a night of hardly any sleep, and so are we.
None of us can go on like this, but we just don't know what to do.
Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.