To be honest, I am at my wits end. My husband has been showing signs of severe memory loss, confusion, behavioural changes etc, for about a year now. Even he can see it - a couple of incidents have scared him to the point where he wont go out alone any more. We went to the doctors, they referred him to adult mental health, who basically did a memory test that he passed with flying colours - he can tell the time etc, but cannot remember a 3 item shopping list! After 33 years of marriage he's forgotten how to wallpaper - we know there is a problem, but because he passed this paper test they've diagnosed depression and put him on tablets that make him sleep most of the time, and then discharged him. We have asked for another referral after he got lost in town, but 6 months on ,we're still trying to deal with this on our own. I am tired, apart from the day stuff, he kicks/hits out in his sleep, so I doze on the edges most nights. I don't like to lose patience, but after having the same conversation several times, or being told I never had a certain conversation, I am losing it - beginning to think it's me not him!! Although, family have noticed too, but just can't seem to get anyone to listen or help