I really don't know what to do,my OH I'm going to be moved from residential care home to a EMI nursing care home which he really does need , but the thing is he's local authority funded and I've to pay the top up fee which is quite a lot of money for me but he needs the extra care I signed the direct debit form yesterday,and now I'm so very worried that because no one has been from the social services to meens test me to let me know how much money I will have a week so I can try to budget for this top up fee I'm a pensioner and I haven't a lot of money to start with ,I've been really not been well since my husband went in care I don't seem to be able to pick myself up , I don't know who to turn to .could someone please point me in the right direction. Thank you all I hope all this make sense as I don't feel in control anymore.xx