So today went round to my mum's to walk the dog. She asked about whether son was visiting me on his birthday or spending it at home with his girlfriend. I told her she was at university. Oh, I didn't know that you never told me, etc. Went on from there that I was holding stuff back from her and didn't talk to her, etc. I walked her dog and went back in for more!!! She said I was trying to make out she was a liar and losing her marbles. I said I wasn't making her out to be a liar that she had obviously forgotten everything I had said. She called me a bitch, told me I was a bully and that she was going to report me and that it was me that was forgetful. I told her she was lucky I removed all her bank details, card number, pin number, security code, dates, etc. from piece of paper left openly on the table. She said she was never out so it was never a problem. I pointed out that it was when she was out with her hairdresser friend (another worry - someone who has befriended her and now does her hair, her cleaning, her garden, started taking her to the shops, etc. - I have no idea what cash is changing hands as she lies about money). She wants me to get more cash out of the bank because she hasn't got any! However, she has £3,500 sitting in a money tin on her dressing table! So she doesn't lie!! My son said I should take the money and pay it back into the bank. I have Lasting Power of Attorney but feel like relinquishing that and letting the courts handle her. The parting shot as I went out of the door was her calling me a cow and she knew exactly where she stood now! What the hell do I do now? I am working all hours to pay my bills and she expects me to drop everything for her. I am obviously heavily discussed with this "hairdresser" and not a very nice person. I have Graves Disease and the one main thing is I should stay away from stress. Help!
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