Indeed - nt to mention the millions we save the various Governments.
He told me to 'Go Away' yesterday and I spent a couple of hours thinking, maybe I would. Then I took him his meds and a drink, and he had forgotten all about it.
I think that the mind set we all need- but most cannot achieve - is that this person we are living with is NOT the person we loved, its an imposter, a doppleganger of some sort. We have to try and forget the person we fell in love with, because they have gone on a journey without us.
I now live with someone else, someone who needs me, But I do not need him. I can learn to love this dependent vulnerable person, just like I learnt to love the foster children I cared for. I might not like him very much - but it's not him - its this awful bloody condition - compassion was mentioned earlier - this site must be over flowing with compassion, and we should pat ourselves on the back.
We are doing a grand job, we are the salt of the earth and we should hold our heads up high and be proud of the task in hand - that of caring for someone who cannot care for themselves.
Sounds good anyway - until we hit another moment of utter despair!!
It's a warm day, he is happy to watch snooker, so I am going into the garden and enlarging the borders - thus making the lawn smaller!!!
He told me to 'Go Away' yesterday and I spent a couple of hours thinking, maybe I would. Then I took him his meds and a drink, and he had forgotten all about it.
I think that the mind set we all need- but most cannot achieve - is that this person we are living with is NOT the person we loved, its an imposter, a doppleganger of some sort. We have to try and forget the person we fell in love with, because they have gone on a journey without us.
I now live with someone else, someone who needs me, But I do not need him. I can learn to love this dependent vulnerable person, just like I learnt to love the foster children I cared for. I might not like him very much - but it's not him - its this awful bloody condition - compassion was mentioned earlier - this site must be over flowing with compassion, and we should pat ourselves on the back.
We are doing a grand job, we are the salt of the earth and we should hold our heads up high and be proud of the task in hand - that of caring for someone who cannot care for themselves.
Sounds good anyway - until we hit another moment of utter despair!!
It's a warm day, he is happy to watch snooker, so I am going into the garden and enlarging the borders - thus making the lawn smaller!!!