It’s hard isn’t it, I currently feel like a hamster on a wheel going round and round in circles getting no where fast. OH is fixated again on our money asking at least 20 times a day, we don’t seem to discuss anything different, or it’s haven’t seen the kids for ages, you only saw your daughter three times this week I know because I was looking after her kids being run ragged chasing a two year old and a 1 year old who has just found her feet whilst you fell asleep in the chair, ( how do you do that). Also back on about the car, they’ve taken your license off you, why nothing wrong with me, everyone forgets something sometimes and it’s not as if I have to go to the doctors all the time is it, no one is checking on me, so can’t be anything serious can it, so I don’t see why I can’t drive, I’ll even retake my test. Rant over for now
Hi, Sammie234.
Money, money, money, been there and done that. Today I got the classic quote:- OH - " All I do is pay out but you don't know anything about that do you?". Oh good grief, given that for the first 32 years of our married life I paid all the bills and bought all the furniture, furnishings, decorating materials and food - this is one particular insult that is like a blow to the solar plexus.
It just seems that they can jump up and down like a kid having a tantrum, say what they want, do what they want and everyone around them has to put up and shut up. The other day I got a builder to replace the kitchen door handle and lock - quite simply the old one had given up and several times we were either locked out of the kitchen or locked in the kitchen...not very smart. So a new lock was fitted. I have not yet heard the end of it....there was nothing wrong (apparently) with the old locks - the new locks are no different - why did we have to go to all that expense (who is this we) etc and etc.
However, yesterday I was having my afternoon nap - or trying ( I broke my ankle on Jan 8th and after a morning hopping around - I need rest) I heard the kitchen door being opened and closed, repeatedly. What in all the world was he doing. However, I said nothing (wouldnt dare) but later on when I went to open the door found it was stuck. When I eventually forced the door open he wore a stupid grin and commented once again on how the new lock hadn't solved anything.
Last evening when he was sitting watching the TV I went out to make myself a coffee - once again I could not open the door easily, so crouched down to have a look - he had stuffed cardboard into the lock mechanism!
I removed the offending cardboard and smeared the lock mechanism with vaseline so that the door practically flies open at the slightest touch..............but of all the childish stupid activities.
I give up....seriously...there should be a law against such behaviour.
Take care.
Mx