Read here but don't post but wanted to send you a big, big hug Lavender - please try not to feel guilty - I know that's easy to say and incredibly hard to do but don't be hard on yourself. You've done so much for your Mum and this too is doing the best for her - as you say the 'home' she wants to go to is a point in time long gone not back to yours.
Everything you've said is correct, another incident is guaranteed if Mum came back 'home' - professional care is what she needs and you are entitled to a life - now the pair of you can have whats best for both of you.
Ignore your bloomin' sister! Silly........sister!
Everything you've said is correct, another incident is guaranteed if Mum came back 'home' - professional care is what she needs and you are entitled to a life - now the pair of you can have whats best for both of you.
Ignore your bloomin' sister! Silly........sister!