LOL, yes have seen that one.Anyway, in one of the videos she shows a technique for reassuring someone, that involves a specific way of taking their hand. This is partly for reassurance, partly for comfort and acceptable contact, and partly so they can't hit you or throw something with that hand!
My problem is that a) My mother and I have never had a touchy feely relationship and b) I don't fancy getting that close when she's "on one"
I have a stool sampling kit from the GP and I should have taken a sample this morning when I was removing the contents of the bowl of the chemical toilet...but I forgot I'm not going back into the bags now either. Bad daughter.
Mum was OK this morning temper-wise, until I made the stupid mistake of leaving her alone in the bathroom to comb her hair. She went looking for a mirror and found OH's shaving one...I could see her inspecting her toothless grin. Then she went looking for the "missing denture". Then it all kicked off, she wasn't going out, not seeing anyone, not talking to anyone. Managed to get her coat on her and to the front door. Almost out, protesting loudly, when she lobbed her frame at the car parked outside and braced herself in the door frame with her arms and legs.
Somehow got her in the car and she dozed and grumped all the way to day care. Thought she might refuse to get out of the car but no. How are you today then? asked the manager. Mum glared at me and said well how am I supposed to answer that then when I can't talk to anyone? Exchanged worried looks with the manager, explained behind the scenes and then legged it.
Have been expecting a call all day from them, asking me to go and fetch Mum. But no, arrived to collect her with trepidation and find out she's been "grand" all day
And she's been in fine form all evening...