My Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer's two years ago. Her strong, independent spirit kept alive and kicking, altho with periodic small changes until recently. Nearly 90 yrs old, so know we all been luckier than many to have had many wonderful full on years, but really struggling to deal with things now. Too long a story to go into my and whole family background, suffice to say I am the youngest of four and Mum has been my rock through many tribulations. I am now main carer and am really struggling to stay pragmatic and practical seeing my lovely, strong, independent, reliable mum become more like my child, needing my constant reassurance. Cant go anywhere alone anymore v- scared of getting lost - she has. Not always correct with money etc in shops, easily phased if rushed - so avoids. Losing track of days and even time of day more an more - scaring us both equally. I am trying so hard to be practical with help in all ways, physical and emotional, tho breaking my heart daily seeing Mum this way, others keep saying will help/support but don't, miss my Mum so much, don't know how can face even worse to come. Any advice very, very gratefully appreciated,
Judith x
Judith x