I care for my mum with alzheimers I also look after my brother with learning disabilities I also have 4 boys 2 of them are very difficult I'm finding it really hard at the moment. As mum is getting Harder to manage now .when she was first diagnosed I promised I would do the caring but I am one person and there only so many was I can split my time doctors have gave me social services no so I can get some support to maybe someone else going in to but I know when mum finds out she will be horrified just feel I'm letting her down