Hi,
Just wanted to post an update on my situation. Right now I feel like I am being pulled in every direction and criticised by pretty much everyone. Feeling so rubbish and worthless.
My mum is being moved to a permanent nursing home but just found out it is being investigated over issues of safety. I got told that they will put her there anyway regardless of whether I agree to it or not. I have agreed as I am afraid she could end up somewhere worse. I spoke to someone from a local charity and they think it is probably just a minor issue as they have heard nothing but good reports about the place. It seemed nice when I went over and the staff friendly.
I am also getting so much verbal abuse from my dad. Ever since my mum went into a home he has been saying vicious stuff and being nasty and awkward. He has always been nasty but now I feel like I can't take much more. I really thought that I wouldn't have to take the vicious verbal abuse anymore when my mum went into a home. At least only one of them is doing it now. There is also the issue of my mum's friend who disagrees with her going into a home and who I think isn't speaking to me anymore. After all the upset this morning various people said I sounded stressed and over-reacting. I think the manager of the temporary home is furious with me too. I feel like I have become everyone's punching bag - someone for them to blame when things go wrong. What should I do?
Just wanted to post an update on my situation. Right now I feel like I am being pulled in every direction and criticised by pretty much everyone. Feeling so rubbish and worthless.
My mum is being moved to a permanent nursing home but just found out it is being investigated over issues of safety. I got told that they will put her there anyway regardless of whether I agree to it or not. I have agreed as I am afraid she could end up somewhere worse. I spoke to someone from a local charity and they think it is probably just a minor issue as they have heard nothing but good reports about the place. It seemed nice when I went over and the staff friendly.
I am also getting so much verbal abuse from my dad. Ever since my mum went into a home he has been saying vicious stuff and being nasty and awkward. He has always been nasty but now I feel like I can't take much more. I really thought that I wouldn't have to take the vicious verbal abuse anymore when my mum went into a home. At least only one of them is doing it now. There is also the issue of my mum's friend who disagrees with her going into a home and who I think isn't speaking to me anymore. After all the upset this morning various people said I sounded stressed and over-reacting. I think the manager of the temporary home is furious with me too. I feel like I have become everyone's punching bag - someone for them to blame when things go wrong. What should I do?