Unfortunately they’re self funding as have too much in savings. My mum has complained to the care firm but nothing has improvedIf the care agency is being paid for by Social Services, then get on to SS and complain.
Unfortunately they’re self funding as have too much in savings. My mum has complained to the care firm but nothing has improvedIf the care agency is being paid for by Social Services, then get on to SS and complain.
I think it’s just yet another thing for her to have to deal with. She’s worn out. And I don’t think she knows where to start with trying to find somebody else.If they are self-funded there is nothing to stop them finding another agency. They may have to pay a bit more, but it may be worth it to get a better service
Yes it's hard constantly having to sort everything out, but if she can do it having the right agency can make life so much easier. When OH needed carers my daughter in law just phoned several agencies up and asked if they could supply what I needed and how much they charged. The agencies sent round someone to assess OH and I just went with my gut feeling. Perhaps I was lucky, but I have found the carers a godsend.I think it’s just yet another thing for her to have to deal with. She’s worn out. And I don’t think she knows where to start with trying to find somebody else.
Looking back at your original post, you had absolutely no choice but to call an ambulance, after which a hospital stay was not only inevitable but necessary.
Please try not to beat yourself up. Dementia is at the root of this, not you, nor anything you’ve done.
Unfortunately their GP is being completely unhelpful. He is refusing to come and do a home visit, and my dad has no way of getting to the surgery. The GP just wants to fob him off with anti-depressants. We feel completely stuck.I wonder if you could ask to speak with your father’s GP to try and get an understanding of what is/has been going on with him to see such a huge change in such a short time. I think it would be worth trying.
I’d complain to the practice manager and insist on a home visit when you’re also present.Unfortunately their GP is being completely unhelpful. He is refusing to come and do a home visit, and my dad has no way of getting to the surgery. The GP just wants to fob him off with anti-depressants. We feel completely stuck.
Hi! Yes he was seen by a neurologist a couple of years ago and PD was ruled out completely. He does have a tremor but it's an essential tremor. Thank you so much for replying. I would dearly love a diagnosis more just for sanity's sake than anything, as both my Mum and I are so utterly confused by what's happened. Waiting for a second appointment with the memory clinic now as his first one was inconclusive and the lady who conducted the tests was very puzzled by some of the results. He doesn't seem to have declined any further over the last 2 weeks but it's very sad to see him how he is. I miss my strong, capable, funny dad.I am just wondering whether your Dad was ever seen by the neurologist? Obviously I don't know him and have no idea but his symptoms are extremely similar to my Mum's who has Parkinson's Disease with Lewy Body Dementia. I am just wondering whether this possibility has been considered at all? I know that a diagnosis doesn't change anything but at least you then know what you're dealing with and they may be able to give more appropriate medication if it did turn out to be this.