My wife has reached the stage where she is reluctant to go to bed, just sits in her chair and refuses to move. Left her for 30mins, came back, same problem. Persuaded her to stand so I could fit a night incontinence pad, took her to the stairs 'no I cant' she says, but then back in the chair again. I have locked the doors, but find it difficult to sleep myself because I worry what she is doing. Try to keep her awake during the day, TV off, no coffee. No good, she just fights me until her mood changes. So tiring all this. Anyone experience and found solutions please? Thanks