Hi there, am new to this group but thought it might be helpful to seek advice from others living with this. My Mum has advanced Alzheimer's dementia and needs a care home. We are looking in SW london and have narrowed our choice to 2. I think that they both are good options but am having trouble making a final selection as family views are disparate. One seems to provide more specialized dementia care providing one on one care, music therapy, purposeful activities, a garden, a minibus with daily drives(don't always get off the bus), areas with therapy dolls/places to engage as residents move about. The facility is tired looking and is cramped having all residents together in a main lounge area during the day that includes the dining area, sitting area, "quiet" area and kitchenette in an open setting. One of the stairways is not secure. My Mum wanders much of the day and we're concerned that the facility here is cramped and busy feeling making wandering about a bit risky, not to mention the stair. Staff would be with her but Im sure they can't keep eyes on her 24/7.
The other is part of a chain; it's hotel like in appearance. They have a memory unit that is purpose built and on one floor; plenty of safe space to wander in, They have nurses & from what I could see caring staff. What concerned me was they say they have dementia specific programming but they weren't aware of the need for contrast during meals and on toilet seats to enable residents to be successful with those tasks. They had a pat dog come in, lovely garden, empathy dolls as well but did not provide true purposeful activities, no regular music program like playlists for life and from reading their CQC report they seemed to focus on medical aspects of care more. I do think that the physical environment to be more calm and it would be great for my Mum to move about it. There's a lounge and a separate quiet area with another for activities. They take people out but rarely and do not have a minibus.
So I guess I'm trying to figure out whether one is better because it has a better dementia ethos & care but without the best physical environment vs. the other that has a great one and good care but not as sensitive, responsive to the needs of those living with dementia. The mgr and this latter one is very open to trying new things and would support us bringing in say an iPod with music to do our own playlists. Also I'm trying to figure out whether getting out on a minibus is of great value to those with dementia. I would imagine so but want to be mindful of not projecting what I want for my Mum.
Does anyone have experience with either places? I'd appreciate your thoughts. Many thanks!
The other is part of a chain; it's hotel like in appearance. They have a memory unit that is purpose built and on one floor; plenty of safe space to wander in, They have nurses & from what I could see caring staff. What concerned me was they say they have dementia specific programming but they weren't aware of the need for contrast during meals and on toilet seats to enable residents to be successful with those tasks. They had a pat dog come in, lovely garden, empathy dolls as well but did not provide true purposeful activities, no regular music program like playlists for life and from reading their CQC report they seemed to focus on medical aspects of care more. I do think that the physical environment to be more calm and it would be great for my Mum to move about it. There's a lounge and a separate quiet area with another for activities. They take people out but rarely and do not have a minibus.
So I guess I'm trying to figure out whether one is better because it has a better dementia ethos & care but without the best physical environment vs. the other that has a great one and good care but not as sensitive, responsive to the needs of those living with dementia. The mgr and this latter one is very open to trying new things and would support us bringing in say an iPod with music to do our own playlists. Also I'm trying to figure out whether getting out on a minibus is of great value to those with dementia. I would imagine so but want to be mindful of not projecting what I want for my Mum.
Does anyone have experience with either places? I'd appreciate your thoughts. Many thanks!
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