🤞A very quiet week all in all and no big traumas and today, DayCare day all is quiet but I haven’t mentioned where she is going yet 😝. Our cleaner (next door neighbour) is away on holiday and so I suggested she hoover downstairs as laminate floors and lightweight stick type hoover while I did upstairs with the Dyson and WoW that Dyson has put on weight!!! Either that or I am ready for the knackers yard 😂. When I came down she was trailing the hoover backwards and only rarely pushing it but it doesn’t matter as it shows I need her to help me. Since having the chat with her son I have heard nowt and no offers to take her out or to help but hoping it is just the weather that has prevented him doing so. Clock is ticking to show and tell time for daycare, gulp 😟
If Pauline needed physical intervention I wouldn’t hesitate to get carers in but physically and in spite of Osteoporosis in her lower spine she doesn’t use a stick and refuses the help of her rollator. The gulp is the emotional responses I get from her when daycare time arrives as she can get very nasty. I know the time is approaching when more care will be needed but I really believe her sons should step up and even research care homes etc as I don’t want accusations of not consulting but sadly they haven’t done so as yet.Hi @Agzy - you said "Clock is ticking to show and tell time for daycare, gulp 😟"
Taking on help from carers during the day is NOT a bad sign or thing. We are all getting older and thus helping our OH in her care, doing the housework, doing the gardening, doing all the meals, etc all gets a bit harder, takes a bit longer as we are a bit slower, more easily get tired etc.
I looked up various care providing companies online in my area, phoned round to to see what they could do, what training they give their staff carers, what they charge, etc. Then I got three to send round a manager for a chat, assessment (both ways) etc.
I now have two carers (they nearly always need two if any lifting might be involved, including to operate a hoist) calling in three times a day - morning, lunchtime, early evening - for 30 min visits. This started a while ago. Although they are supposed to be here for 30 mins each visit, they have become more efficient and rarely spend more than 20 mins here at a time. I still do the medications, and the feeding. They do personal care, hair, teeth, bathing, toiletting, etc.
Takes a weight off, I can tell you! Yes it costs, but overall I consider it worthwhile so that I don't become a patient, and these home visits are about 25% of what it would cost if my OH went into a care home in my area.
Well worth considering, or in your case gulping!!
Hi @AgzyA beautiful sunny start outside but dark clouds within and all because it is Sunday! Because of her Osteoporosis and to aid bone density and just once a week, she has to take a single tablet along with a pint of water and nothing else for 30 minutes. Simple and straightforward for most but not Pauline as she takes it as a major imposition with complaints and questions galore but eventually accepts it all as;
a). the doctor ordered it and, b). the only way to get out of it is to see the doctor and ask him; at least that is what I tell her and so blame is shifted to her GP 😂.
The biggest medical imposition for us is twice a week and last night was one of them in that she has to have a vaginal insertion of Oestrogen cream at bedtime and, although more often or not she manages to do it with just my supervision, sometimes I have to do it for her and it mortifies her and me. I have explained the issues to her GP but it seems there is no alternative and it is to reduce chances of having a UTI and indeed little sympathy for how it is perceived and how it distresses her.
At least the sun is shining so bedding once washed can have a good airing.
Thanks @Chizz she has the chewable one as well and doesn’t seem to mind it but lately she has taken to asking what each pill and tablet in the blister pot is for and seems to see all as an imposition and not needed 😁Hi @Agzy
Maybe have a word with the Dr or pharmacist at the GP surgery about the osteoporosis tablet. My wife used to have what Pauline has, but it wasn't really working for her (as in early d days she'd forget it altogether), so we've changed to a calcium supplement tablet - chewable - and I put in my OH's breakfast cereal (along with her other pills) so she doesn't really notice it (them). Just a thought.
Best wishes.
I use to take the tablets but had side effects from them. I now have a six monthly injection into the belly fat and I don’t even feel it. My latest bone density scan showed some improvement which was great. The injection is called Prolia and once started, you need to keep using it.Hi @Agzy
Maybe have a word with the Dr or pharmacist at the GP surgery about the osteoporosis tablet. My wife used to have what Pauline has, but it wasn't really working for her (as in early d days she'd forget it altogether), so we've changed to a calcium supplement tablet - chewable - and I put in my OH's breakfast cereal (along with her other pills) so she doesn't really notice it (them). Just a thought.
Best wishes.
We have an appointment with practice nurse tomorrow and will mention that as an option, thank you.I use to take the tablets but had side effects from them. I now have a six monthly injection into the belly fat and I don’t even feel it. My latest bone density scan showed some improvement which was great. The injection is called Prolia and once started, you need to keep using it.
My bone density clinic do not recommend the use of calcium tablets at all as calcium contributes to the build up of plaque in the arteries. I still take Vitamin D. Even though I do not use a calcium supplement, I am doing well in the Prolia alone.