Hi,
My 83 year old Dad has recently had a brain scan and memory assessment and we expect a diagnosis of Vascular Dementia and Alzheimers.
He is currently living alone, as we lost Mum in 2022, but we are aware things will change as his illness progresses. It seems unlikely that he will be able to have the medication on offer due to his other medical issues (one kidney due to cancer, chronic kidney disease, controlled high BP, medicated atrial fibbulation).
I currently care for him from 80 miles away with regular stays over, video calling, phone calling, district nurse calling, medication and catheter arrangements, systems and prompting. At the moment he is staying with us for a week and we are going away for two days which might not be the best idea but it's risk and reward as he can see his adult grandchildren this way and we can take him to a family funeral that he really wants to attend.
We've noticed a stepped decline over the past two years, the past year very obvious.
I'm here to learn and for a virtual handhold.