So I finally plucked up the courage to ring adult social care to request care / carers assessments!
Social worker was lovely but reminded me that mum has to give permission to be assessed so would call back once I’d prepped mum. She also suggested companion care / day centres would be most useful for mum 👍🏻
As expected, mum extremely unhappy about this (did the usual “rather be dead”) & when SW called back said that she was completely independent, did all her own shopping etc. 😡
I think she eventually agreed to let them come around for a chat! I spoke to SW again & she said her mum had been Velcro too & sometimes I had to just walk away & switch my phone off! So I did!!
Told mum if she was so independent, she’d be ok for a few hours!
It all came back to bite me as she was trebly anxious by the time I got back & even more clingy but still adamant she’s not going to try day centre (& be one of those people that gets off a minibus 😩😂)
Kind of wish I’d just gone private & done the slow “friend” introduction technique
Rant nr 1 done - watch this space, nr 2 incoming 🤣x
Social worker was lovely but reminded me that mum has to give permission to be assessed so would call back once I’d prepped mum. She also suggested companion care / day centres would be most useful for mum 👍🏻
As expected, mum extremely unhappy about this (did the usual “rather be dead”) & when SW called back said that she was completely independent, did all her own shopping etc. 😡
I think she eventually agreed to let them come around for a chat! I spoke to SW again & she said her mum had been Velcro too & sometimes I had to just walk away & switch my phone off! So I did!!
Told mum if she was so independent, she’d be ok for a few hours!
It all came back to bite me as she was trebly anxious by the time I got back & even more clingy but still adamant she’s not going to try day centre (& be one of those people that gets off a minibus 😩😂)
Kind of wish I’d just gone private & done the slow “friend” introduction technique
Rant nr 1 done - watch this space, nr 2 incoming 🤣x