Moms has Alzheimer’s and has had carers for over 6 months now ; she was recently in respite for 4 weeks then a month later for 2 weeks so I could take a holiday but since she’s been home last Thursday although couldn’t remember having carers
They visit 4 times a day via a key safe - they feed water and give her medicines etc and usually the same team over a few days and chat with her too-
Moms refusing help with dressing and cleaning but that was the same before but now saying repeatedly
These carers are taking my keys and locking me in my own home
I’ve told her she has her own keys and found them (has a tile fitted) then straight away says I need to hide them from the carers so they don’t lock me in - we’ve gone round in circles on Sunday and again today - I know she will hide them again and forget where til I go and find them again
She also says I don’t want to go back to that place (the respite) or have carers I’d rather die - I just recovered from illness due to her care but now already stressed to the hill again
Does anyone have any ideas as there is no reasoning at all - personally I think she needs full time care but rest of family fighting against me but they don’t see her like I do 😢
They visit 4 times a day via a key safe - they feed water and give her medicines etc and usually the same team over a few days and chat with her too-
Moms refusing help with dressing and cleaning but that was the same before but now saying repeatedly
These carers are taking my keys and locking me in my own home
I’ve told her she has her own keys and found them (has a tile fitted) then straight away says I need to hide them from the carers so they don’t lock me in - we’ve gone round in circles on Sunday and again today - I know she will hide them again and forget where til I go and find them again
She also says I don’t want to go back to that place (the respite) or have carers I’d rather die - I just recovered from illness due to her care but now already stressed to the hill again
Does anyone have any ideas as there is no reasoning at all - personally I think she needs full time care but rest of family fighting against me but they don’t see her like I do 😢