Had a bit of a dilemma today. The Mil who is still a woman with sexual needs put us in a very awkward position. She had phoned minor injuries with problems bleeding and sore down below. She went to minor injuries where she was treated with much contempt by the staff (who were initially not aware of her illness). We found out she had been using 'toys' to 'pleasure herself' and had forgotten all about it (I found them hidden under a pillow). She was distressed by the soreness and saying she didn't know why. I am so concerned that this is not an isolated incident and also she keeps 'trying it on' with any man she sees. I'm so tired of this behaviour and when I confront her I get either a childish or teenage response. I can't keep an eye on her 24/7 and she refuses anyone coming to help her. She's also not taking medication. I'm scared for her sanity and well being as there is a childhood history of sexual abuse. I could cry as both sons want to wash their hands of her.