After asking to see the doctor last week, after being told may be i should not visit dad so often. I've still not managed to catch her yet to tell her about my feelings. Today i took dads sister to see him as she live quite a long way, and i have not been able to go in since friday as i've not been well. I took some small harmless apple pies in, but you would think that i had taken a bomb in. The same nurse that told me not to visit so often, now tells me not to bring him any sweet cakes or anything that is sweet at all as he has had a really stomach for the last four days and apparently its my fault! His manner is getting on my nerves and i don't know how i am keeping my cool with him. I asked him what about the puddings they give him being custard and cake or jelly and ice cream and other sweet puddings, i was told that thats ok as what they give him is good and i should not give him any extras. My brother went on sunday and took him some banannas of which he ate one. Now i thought they were supposed to be good for you!. He has never suffered from a had stomach until he first went into hospital and started taking loads of medication. Anyway i took my little pies home with me and was left again feeling that i had done something wrong yet again.
I've written all my compaints down and will be asking for a meeting with the main care staff there so they can tell me to my face what is there gripes with me. My boxing gloves will be on. I am so fed up with all of this, i think they would be quite happy for me just not to come to see him at all. But they will never get that from me.
Sorry for the moan, thanks for listening
Elise
I've written all my compaints down and will be asking for a meeting with the main care staff there so they can tell me to my face what is there gripes with me. My boxing gloves will be on. I am so fed up with all of this, i think they would be quite happy for me just not to come to see him at all. But they will never get that from me.
Sorry for the moan, thanks for listening
Elise