Evening all,
I hope you are coping well with the heat and summer holidays (if you have them).
This week has been a bit tricky to say the least. My mum, who has late stage Alzheimer’s and lives abroad, has become a widow as my stepdad passed away Unexpectedly three days ago. She wasn’t there when he passed. He was her main carer and they lived together in a serviced flat. She’s been moved back to hospital while waiting for space in a care home. The staff decided not to tell her that she is a widow now as she is likely not to remember him.
I’m going there to see her and sort out her affairs and all things practical in a couple of days. Part of me agrees entirely about keeping her in the dark about my stepdad’s death - I’m sure the news would make her distressed. But part of me wants her to know and to come to his funeral. I don’t really know what to do though I’m inclined to not tell her.
What did/would you do?
Thanks for reading Xx
I hope you are coping well with the heat and summer holidays (if you have them).
This week has been a bit tricky to say the least. My mum, who has late stage Alzheimer’s and lives abroad, has become a widow as my stepdad passed away Unexpectedly three days ago. She wasn’t there when he passed. He was her main carer and they lived together in a serviced flat. She’s been moved back to hospital while waiting for space in a care home. The staff decided not to tell her that she is a widow now as she is likely not to remember him.
I’m going there to see her and sort out her affairs and all things practical in a couple of days. Part of me agrees entirely about keeping her in the dark about my stepdad’s death - I’m sure the news would make her distressed. But part of me wants her to know and to come to his funeral. I don’t really know what to do though I’m inclined to not tell her.
What did/would you do?
Thanks for reading Xx