Thanks to everyone who has read my previous posts re my dear Mum.
4 years after diagnosis with this dreadful disease Mum is now in eternal peace after passing away earlier today, peacefully and comfortabl.y. I’m just so grateful that there are carers who can deal with the indignities of those in their charge with the utmost respect and care. I’m in awe of them.
I suspected I was unprepared for today even though the writing has been on the wall for sometime and I was right, it has been a completely appalling day and I haven’t been able to speak to any relatives or friends, only able to text them the sad news which is a complete cop out but all I could manage today.
I’m lucky I have love and support from my wife and family, friends and neighbour.s.
My wonderful Mum is now reunited with my wonderful Dad.
For me the lesson I would pass on from this terrible journey with Mums illness is - don’t hesitate too long when deciding to withdraw life sustaining treatment from your loved one. Sadly I think I took this immensely difficult decision later in Mums illness progression than was optimal for her - but hindsight is a wonderful thing.
Thanks again for all your support and understanding, it has been an immense help.
4 years after diagnosis with this dreadful disease Mum is now in eternal peace after passing away earlier today, peacefully and comfortabl.y. I’m just so grateful that there are carers who can deal with the indignities of those in their charge with the utmost respect and care. I’m in awe of them.
I suspected I was unprepared for today even though the writing has been on the wall for sometime and I was right, it has been a completely appalling day and I haven’t been able to speak to any relatives or friends, only able to text them the sad news which is a complete cop out but all I could manage today.
I’m lucky I have love and support from my wife and family, friends and neighbour.s.
My wonderful Mum is now reunited with my wonderful Dad.
For me the lesson I would pass on from this terrible journey with Mums illness is - don’t hesitate too long when deciding to withdraw life sustaining treatment from your loved one. Sadly I think I took this immensely difficult decision later in Mums illness progression than was optimal for her - but hindsight is a wonderful thing.
Thanks again for all your support and understanding, it has been an immense help.