merry christmas everyone. my husband john is in a residentral care home, has been in there 25 days now. he suffers with AD. the home seems ok the carers are friendly enough. they had a lovely xmas party last thursday afternoon for them and family.I went to see my husband yesterday, and because my husband has this habit of keep putting his hand down his trousers and touching his bum one of the carers called me to one side, and ask me to make him stop doing it. she said the other carers dont take no notice of it and help him when he needs it ,BUT she said it makes her feel bad and cannot handle it. made me very upset. she also said that he might be ask to leave the home. I told the manager when my husband went in the home everything myhusband gets up to in front of my social worker and age concern, and he said not to worry about anything they could copewith all that. I am disabled myself, and before he went into the home I looked after him for two years all on my own I have no family to help. I feel that she is the wrong job if she cannot do her job. I want to tell the manager about her, but I dont want my husband to suffer if I conplain.