My mum has been in a care home for three years and she is in the later stages of dementia which means she is very sleepy. I was allowed to visit her briefly on Mother’s Day and I call once a week but only get ‘yeah she’s ok’ from the new manager who I really don’t like (the old manager was amazing) and I’m worried sick about her. The home always prized itself on having amazing and kind staff and I’m worried that agency staff will now go in and won’t be as kind. Feel devastated that I can’t see her not to mention terrible guilt as I feel like I have deserted her.